Are you an introvert who hates attending a work function? Here's how to cope:

Get to Know People Beforehand: How do you find people who'll be at the event?

  • Forums or similar on the event's website.
  • Twitter -- search for the name of the event.
  • Blog posts -- is anyone you know going?
  • Facebook -- the event itself may have a page.
  • LinkedIn -- will any of your contacts (or their contacts) be attending?

Go Prepared:

  • Find out the dress code in advance.
  • Take a pen and small notebook.
  • Have business cards.
  • Carry breath mints, a comb and makeup.
  • Take a map (or know the exact address).

Look for Someone Else Who Seems Shy: You'll find it easier to break the ice.

Start a Conversation Straight Away: Your nerves will just get worse if you wait.

Don't Talk Too Fast: It's a conversation, not a speech to get through.

Don't Over-Analyze Afterwards: No matter what happens, it's not the end of the world.